For the record, I am not a lesbian, nor bi.
I think guys confuse themselves when they say they want a "smart chick." Do they honestly want their girl correcting all their grammar issues or having to explain to them in dumbed-down words about chemicals or even computer programming?
On the other hand, the male wants the female to look as sexually stimulating as possible.
So I'm pretty sure all guys would prefer physical a little over mentally, but with a good average on both. <3 xxx