Sex before Marriage? - Page 3

Tokubetsu · 08-18-2008, 06:14 PM

I am going to at least wait until I'm really in love with someone and care deeply for them, but for now, I've got the plans to not have sex until I'm married.

Mrs. Morris · 08-18-2008, 06:16 PM

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Originally Posted by terinuptrash

way before marriage. but be careful who you do it with, some girls and guys can become extremely emotionally attached if you have sex before marriage with them.

Man, no kidding. xD If I were single and hot....It'd be a form of exercise for me....But only if I were single. It's just sex for gods sake. I don't think it's a big deal. But then again, I don't think most "profane" things are a big deal. I had sex with this one guy, and he started barely talking about how he wanted to see me again, I'm thinking "wtf dude, you know I'm married, do you know what a fucking one night stand is?" <And I'm not a whore. >.> My husband approved of this. LOL.

Back to the topic. I believe in sex before marriage. I was having sex just a few months after I started dating Tom and had it very frequently the entire time while we weren't married.

You should know everything about your lover before you decide to commit to them. And I mean everything. What if you find out he has some weird sexual fetish that you CANNOT deal with? How someone has sex can say a lot about them. And you should know about your partners sex life, and make sure you two aren't awkward about it before getting married. Cause if something happens that it's so awkward anyways, you might hardly have sex after marriage because you're traumatized. So, I think sex plays a huge part in a relationship, and you need to make sure you're comfortable together before you're stuck together.

Oh, and everything worked out the way I did it. We both lost our virginity to each other, stayed together, got married and we're still going strong. And we don't even have kids yet, so you know it's not like we're idiots about it. xD

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Originally Posted by existingfault

It's fine. Sex and love don't necessarily have anything to do with one another. Sex is just a physical way to enjoy yourself and it shouldn't be given any more weight than that.

Just read that. And QFE. Totally agree. I tell my husband he is allowed to screw a girl if he wants while he's away in military, (which he hasn't) because I believe sex is...Well, like you said. A way to enjoy yourself. I wish I could have it more. >.>

**Fewmitz** · 08-18-2008, 06:24 PM

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Originally Posted by terinuptrash

i wish T__T. the kind of girls i would like to be emotionally attached to are very adamant about not losing their virginity until after atleast one year in a relationship. and i cant wait a whole fucking year. so im kinda screwed unless i change the kind of girls i like

Tru dat D=, although it's possible I would wait a year for like, one person.

Also: Fellatio. IT DOESN'T COUNT

**qtpie** · 08-18-2008, 07:49 PM

Defiantly not , depending on the type of person you are. I don't see it as something sacred necessarily.
I feel that if you're close with the person ... why not?
Some may feel they'd rather just go sleep around

I don't want to sleep around, but I know that I would like to have sex with someone if I've been dating them for long enough or feel close enough.

Insightful · 08-19-2008, 01:51 AM

I believe sex before marriage is okay, as long as the participants are both consenting, and they GENUINELY love each other.
I love my girlfriend, I really do.
When we first went out, she was going to wait until marriage.
And now she says I turned her into a sex fiend, every time she gets turned on she automatically starts playing with her self, haha.

terinuptrash · 08-19-2008, 07:20 AM

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Originally Posted by Garfield

Also: Fellatio. IT DOESN'T COUNT

i love loopholes.

~~*Mrs. Kyo*~~ · 08-19-2008, 04:45 PM

Hmmm....Sex before marriage....

I believe it isn't bad....for guys..since they run around poking all the girls without and problems. But, as for girls, we take the burden of possible children. So, sex before marriage is certainly a no-no for girls.

**Fewmitz** · 08-19-2008, 04:46 PM

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Originally Posted by Mrs. Kyo

Hmmm....Sex before marriage....

I believe it isn't bad....for guys..since they run around poking all the girls without and problems. But, as for girls, we take the burden of possible children. So, sex before marriage is certainly a no-no for girls.

Preventative measures are witchcraft and shouldn't be trusted, obviously.

~~*Mrs. Kyo*~~ · 08-19-2008, 05:05 PM

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Originally Posted by Kyo #2

Preventative measures are witchcraft and shouldn't be trusted, obviously.

Awww....fewmew changed names again....but, a Kyo?

Preventative measures....what? cottonballs? You know....contraceptives aren't guaranteed to work.. Plus, what of all the STDs and stuffs... I hear we're more prone to getting them..

existingfault · 08-19-2008, 05:08 PM

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Originally Posted by Mrs. Kyo

Hmmm....Sex before marriage....

I believe it isn't bad....for guys..since they run around poking all the girls without and problems. But, as for girls, we take the burden of possible children. So, sex before marriage is certainly a no-no for girls.

Yay double standards! You say that like guys don't have to deal with the burden of raising a child as well. I mean, if a guy knocks up his girlfriend, ~loves~ her enough to stay with her when she has a kid, odds are he's going to have a lot of responsibility dumped on his shoulders. You shouldn't exempt men from the consequences just because they don't have the carry the thing. :/

Anyway, there are plenty of contraceptives out there to make this risk practically negligible. If you use them right and get pregnant anyway, you are ridiculously unlucky.